{"id":10451,"date":"2013-05-15T15:43:14","date_gmt":"2013-05-15T23:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/?p=10451"},"modified":"2013-05-15T15:43:14","modified_gmt":"2013-05-15T23:43:14","slug":"what-we-really-look-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/?p=10451","title":{"rendered":"What We Really Look Like"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_10455\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10455\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-10455\" alt=\"family\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/family.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10455\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Not quite ready for our close-up<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>As a child I always looked forward to Mother&#8217;s Day because it was a day that my entire family got together and I got to spend time with all my cousins and grandparents. It took me a very long time to figure out that cousins on my mom&#8217;s side and cousins on my dad&#8217;s side were not directly related to one another. I blame Mother&#8217;s Day for this confusion. All of us have grown older and now we&#8217;ve added a new generation to the mix. Some of us &#8216;kids&#8217; have gotten married and that has added some more adults as well. Attempting to draw a family tree would be funny, maybe next year. Now that I&#8217;m grown, and a mother of two, I&#8217;m surprised to find that Mother&#8217;s Day doesn&#8217;t have a new meaning to me.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-10461 aligncenter\" alt=\"work izak\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/work-izak.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I cherish motherhood all year long &#8211; I love this season of my life &#8211; and I approach the day as another opportunity to see my beloved extended family. \u00a0My only request to Barry was that I have a couple uninterrupted hours (at some point in my life) to edit photos, work on the photo books and maybe do a blog post or two. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I also feel very, very fortunate to have a mother that is so present in my life. I hope that I can be to my girls what my mom is to me. I&#8217;ve had a post stewing in my brain for a bit about my own mom and have even pulled a few awesome photos&#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/scan0045.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-10462 aligncenter\" alt=\"hannah &amp; janet\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/scan0045.jpg\" width=\"439\" height=\"670\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>BUT right now our yard has been taken over by my dad, Izak and Izak&#8217;s friend, Rich, to expand our driveway and extend our fence. I really don&#8217;t have time to be blogging right now or even editing photos. Alas, here I am. Audrey fell asleep (yahooo!!) and Maggie is &#8216;assisting&#8217; with the digging. I double checked to make sure that the mountain of laundry is still there, wondered if I should take a shower or sweep the dirt up again, but opted for a cup of peach tea (thanks, Sue!) and a Monster Cookie while I sifted through the photos I&#8217;ve got.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/dad.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-10454\" alt=\"dad\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/dad.jpg\" width=\"410\" height=\"614\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-10457 aligncenter\" alt=\"maggie under tree1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/maggie-under-tree1.jpg\" width=\"410\" height=\"614\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>As I looked through the photos, I kept having this thought of &#8216;this is what we really look like&#8217; \u00a0and how I&#8217;ve been fighting the fight of wondering how families do it. How do they get it all done? And I am slowly, ever so slowly, coming to the firm truth: they don&#8217;t. Everybody essentially has their piles of laundry, weed-filled yards, ignored dirt on the floors, unwashed hair, etc.<br \/>\n<\/b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/maggie-under-tree.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-10456\" alt=\"maggie under tree\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/maggie-under-tree.jpg\" width=\"410\" height=\"614\" \/><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-10452 aligncenter\" alt=\"audrey\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/audrey.jpg\" width=\"410\" height=\"614\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>As I sit here finishing my tea and eating the last bits of my Monster Cookie, I&#8217;m thankful that I get to be a mother to my girls. I&#8217;m also thankful that I&#8217;ve learned enough about myself that I can walk away from the mess of a busy home for a moment to enjoy a cup of tea and cookie. I know I&#8217;ll be a better mother because of it. \u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>I should go check on the digging&#8230;..<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/sunshine-maggie.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-10460 aligncenter\" alt=\"sunshine maggie\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/sunshine-maggie.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a child I always looked forward to Mother&#8217;s Day because it was a day that my entire family got together and I got to spend time with all my cousins and grandparents. It took me a very long time to figure out that cousins on my mom&#8217;s side and cousins on my dad&#8217;s side &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/?p=10451\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What We Really Look Like&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[53],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10451","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10451"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10451\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hbadventure.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}