Why Don’t We Live in Montana?

Ahhh….time flies when you’re on the road. We landed at the fabulousChico Hot Springs yesterday and tonight we’re holed up in a dive hotel just on on the border of Montana and North Dakota. The two places couldn’t be more different, but the best part about it is that when all 11 of us are together we have a great time. That much was apparent tonight when we discovered, after a long day of driving, that we’ve got no hot water and rusty water coming from the faucets.  At least we’ll be on the road again tomorrow again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The last few days have been oh so full of memories and beautiful, beautiful rolling green hills. More than once I’ve wondered why we don’t live in Montana and I’ve wished that Sydney and Barry were along for this wild ride. Aside from the mosquitos and creepy prairie dogs, I think I’ve fallen in love with this state. We wandered around Livingston, a small cowboy town near Chico, and it just felt like small town America through and through.

But the heart of this trip so far, aside from it being my grandparent’s 60th wedding celebration, was the time spent at Chico Hot Springs. Between soaking in the pools and eating an intimate dinner together, memories were made that I know will spur future trips back to the special waters, and we’ll bring more of our tribe to share in the goodness.

Rumor has it that as my grandpa gets closer to his place of birth, Devils Lake, he starts humming and singing tunes related to the tiny farm town or songs of his childhood. Our car, however, has been blasting Waylon Jennings, The Dixie Chicks, a bit of John Legend, and  everything else in between.  My mom, Chach and I have become very suave at distracting Maggie….not sure I want to jinx our luck, so I’ll stop there. We’ve been taking guesses about who will be the first person to be left behind, but with all the fuss-budgeting that happens, I don’t think it will actually happen. For the record, Izak has won by a landslide and we’ve still got him with us last time I checked.

Tomorrow we’ll cross over into North Dakota and I don’t expect the landscape to change the instant we make the transition, but the idea that I’m headed back to the place that my grandparents and dad spent so many years and summers growing up excites me immensely. I would say back to the motherland, but in this case I think it might be more appropriate to say fatherland. As the hours tick by and the scenery scrolls by outside my car window, I find myself thinking about how the desire to travel the world and explore lives inside me, but I always forget about the United States and the diversity it offers.

I suppose tonight as some of us fall asleep cold and shivering from freezing showers and others still dreaming of the warm waters of Chico, we can think of these little slices of American Life to take with us on the road because who knows where we’ll land tomorrow. All I know is that we’ll all be together laughing along the way….because there isn’t much else to do with this crew.

P.S. We’ve still got Izak. Phew. He just came to inform me that their water doesn’t work either.

Club Mama

 

 

Growing up, Mother’s Day for me meant meeting up with both sides of my family at the Rosario Beach, eating oysters, adding whipped cream to my grandma’s tarts and playing with my cousins. If the weather was nice enough perhaps a canoe was available for rides and the beach ready for frolicking.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It took me a  long time, well into adulthood, to realize that I come from a very unique family, one where in-laws intermingle with one another and my sets of grandparents are great friends. My two grandmothers sitting and chatting together is not uncommon. For the life of me, as a child I couldn’t understand how other families didn’t mingle in such a way.

 

As my parent’s house filled on Sunday with different combinations of family members showing up with arms full of food and flowers, I thought to myself how traditions come about.  How over the years Mother’s Day must have been a convenient    time for our tribe to gather and it made sense to do so in the middle of everyone, which happens to be my parent’s house and nearby parks.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Keeping with the tradition of seeing family on the Mother’s Day weekend, we zipped up to Barry’s parent’s house before we headed over to Anacortes and were also able to stop by to see his grandmother and grandparents. This meant that Maggie got to see all ten of her grandparents within a 24 hour period. I’m nearly certain that this has never happened before.

Maggie did not disappoint and connected with each of them, pointing, pinching and generally making them solidify their membership into her fan club. Stamps of approval all around.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, Mother’s Day. Thinking back to last year, a fresh member to  Club Mama, I hardly remember the day or at least I hardly remember feeling like I was useful or even myself. This year I felt full of life and energy. I have more of a firm grip on motherhood and how to be ME at the same time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I didn’t slurp on any oysters or even walk on the beach this Mother’s Day weekend, but I did see some of my cousins, chat up all my grandparents (Barry’s too!) and enjoy the family filled festivities.

And, most importantly, I got to spend the day with my mother and daughter.

A New Look

We’re testing the waters here with a new look….same name, same cute little faces, just a different look. More exciting things to come, so hold tight!!!!